Educated Psychic: The Five Levels of Compatibilityl

There are essentially and basically FIVE levels, aspects or ways in which two people must be compatible and in harmony in order to be ecstatically and joyfully happy. Do any such couples exist? Whether they do or not, the fact remains that the FIVE levels come to bear on relationships considerably. As a psychic consultant and counselor, I help people with such issues on a regular basis. Such concerns are basic to human nature.

So let’s take them one by one in ascending order. Basic of course is physical compatibility. Can a seven foot tall man be happy with a four foot tall woman? a midget marry a giant? Depends, perhaps, on mutuality of quirks. But in normal psychic analysis of the physical level, we immediately focus on sexual compatibility. Big Mama in Tennesee William’s “Cat on a Hot Tin Roof” stated emphatically, “The marriage is made right here,” as she patted the bed. That may be basic and essential but it is not the whole story. Couples do not relate only in bed 24 hours a day.

Emotional and Mental levels may be somewhat tied together, much like a twist of double-stranded rope. How we feel emotionally, how we perceive or understand, and what we make of our experience intellectually has much to do with who and what we are. And when two people come together and attempt to blend, variables and complications increase. Psychic consultants and counselors have a good time of it unraveling such twists of rope.

One’s spirituality is another matter, and here I am not talking only about one’s religion and the potential problems in mixed-marriages. Problems of the latter are somewhat passe’ these days, but not totally, especially now that the Muslim world has introduced itself in America. Spirituality in general has to do with one’s beliefs about and relationship to God or that which a person regards as his and her Higher Power. And more than that. Can, for example, a woman who firmly believes in reincarnation and karma be happily married to a man who is an atheist who believes only in his hammer and saw and making money? Well, if the money is enough she may content herself with the other. I’m joking, but not totally. Spiritual matters do matter in regard to compatibility, in spite of Big Mama’s pronouncement.

The fifth dimension, not the musical group, of true compatibility is rarely thought of or considered by most people, and that is a couple’s LEVEL OF BEING. How personally evolved each person is, and given that, how they meet psychically and in areas of philosophy. People who are not of a similar evolutionary level will never understand each other. At least not truly, not deeply. But, taken together, these five categories, some areas of compatibility perhaps stronger than others, determine successful relationships between people, especially in marriage.